Welcome
to the Supreme Teachings of Making Love and Living Love.
Tantra Joy of Being guides women and men into new ways of exploring and gives a new insight into sex; its many function in relationships, health, spirituality, and daily life.
"Sex is pure Joy, when Conscious Loving is Present".
Some of the unhappiness in love has its roots in sex and the misunderstandings that occur in our ways of communicating our needs.
When the reality about sex gets more clear, sex becomes a potential force for healing and intimacy and also sexual exchange can be a natural passage for love, when the feminine element is honoured, where there is relaxation and an opening inward first, before opening to another person.
The longing to live “in Love” and be present “in Love” can be a reality when we embrace our inner qualities and allow the unique essence of the divine feminine and masculine vibrate in Gratitude.
By moving deep in loving sex, you get closer to the fountain of life..... and Tantra approach, can enhance Love.
The Source of Tantra is “Presence within the Body”.
"Only by loving your body
will you come closer to God...
The body knows how to dance, how to sing,
how to love, how to pulsate with God...
When the body start vibrating with the divine,
Suddenly you will see
your soul is also vibrating...
your body and the soul are one."
"Osho" and Nirvano (Resource)
(Tantra MakingLove)
Questions from an interview with Chaitanyo in a private group meeting:
Q: What do you mean by Tantra Making Love?
A: The Art of Making Love is more like an invitation without expectations. Making Love is not just about the feminine or masculine sexual organs getting together and enjoying all these lovely sensations, this is wonderful but it is only one part of it. The real ingredient that creates ecstatic pleasure for the body and soul is the breath and loving presence.
Q: But I thought that the wonderful thing is to loose yourself and come out of the mind!!?
A: Yes, we have to get out of the mind, but the problem is that we get out of the body too, and automatic unconscious behaviour takes over; also, altough we think that we get out of the mind the truth is that the mind is still controlling, telling us what to do in order to have more pleasure.
We have to get inside the body, but in a totally different way and for that, Tantra has Love Meditation Techniques to help us let go of old habits and start exploring new ways of meeting with each other.
Q: I guess that needs commitment to see some results?
A: Yes, it does, but it’s very simple and very rewarding.
Q: I see on you website that Tantra Making Love starts at home in the kitchen. What do you mean?
A: We always think of Tantra as a sexual happening in the bedroom or in a special room, to have a sacred space for that is wonderful, but not necessary for the Sacredness of Making Love. The kitchen keeps the home warm - Tantra keeps the body warm.
Q: What do you mean?
A: The Sacredness of Making Love is in you, it is you.
Making love is something that should happen everywhere.
Q: You mean getting off everywhere?!
A: Making Love is not only a sexual expression, Making Love is a state of Being that is flowing continously in us. We need to understand more about this sexual, love energy, the dynamics of it.
Yin and Yang, Shiva-Shakti, positive-negative, the vulva (yoni) and the penis (linga), the joy of it will nourish your daily life. No matter if you are a couple, alone or have many relationships, this kind of Making Love is something that happens inside us, regardless of the other.
Of course to share this is wonderful but transformation can also happen alone.
Q: Are you saying that we have to relearn how to Make Love?
A: Yes, but there is nothing wrong with that, I had to learn too, over the years. You see, our parents didn’t know, nobody taught them, so they did what everybody does, and that’s not bad, there’s pleasure in it and some kind of intimacy also happens.
But there is much more when we create an environment of relaxed awareness and conscious loving in and out of ourself.
Q: Just one more question, what do you mean by relaxed awareness?
A: Normally we create tension in our bodies when we Make Love in order to achive orgasm, this kind of orgasm is called ejaculation and clitorial orgasm in women. There’s pleasure in it but it is short lived and not fully satisfactory. There are other kinds of peak and valley orgasms.
Many women, and men too, feel that something is missing, women because they are more articulate with their feelings, say that their heart has not been touched and they feel sad. This kind of experience gets imprinted not only in their hearts but also in the memory cells of the vagina.
In answer to your question, YES, relaxation is one of the key ingredients for love, pleasure and intimacy.
So as you see, there are some great ingredients to create a wonderful menu, cooked in the Golden Pot of Life. The Sacred Space is inside us. The oneness we look ourside to achieve with the other, is actually happening inside. And to feel grateful is very important ingredient when we Make Love.
Q: What you think of marriage?
A: This needs a long answer, so to make it short for now, I will say, go into Tantra is absolutely wonderful for any kind of relationship, enhance honesty, love, pleasure, intimacy and freedom.
Q: Just one more please. What you will say to young people?
A: I will say, you are beautiful as you are, and don’t miss the chance to explore life in all its dimensions with an open heart and never give up. Existence wants us to grow to our full potential and Sex is very important for that to happen, we need to understand more what is happening in our bodies and that doesn’t mean that we have to put a camara inside to see, like sex programs do in television. This kind of seeing doesn’t bring real understanding, Love, Meditation, Joy and a spiritual path like Tantra does.
Thank you.
